Posts Tagged ‘support group’

Friends or Diet Saboteurs?

July 28th, 2010

You can’t change diet saboteurs. You can only change how you react to them.

Are you a passive communicator?

Passive communicators have a difficult time letting others know how they feel. They may be uncomfortable speaking out. They avoid all possible conflict. They let others come first. The message they are sending is “I don’t really count”. If you are a passive communicator it is imperative that you develop strategies for dealing with diet saboteurs.

Strategies:

Just say No - when offered food that doesn’t fit into your weight loss plan, simply say “no thanks”. No explanation is needed. You don’t need to feel guilty about not accepting.

Keep a Journal – look for patterns or situations that trigger you to eat unwanted food. Develop strategies for dealing with the person or situation. Keep a list of strategies in your journal or daily planner.

Leave it sit or throw it away – In my own life, I have plenty of saboteurs.   “Have a piece of cake, it will make you feel better”.  I must be strong enough and confident in my decision to either let the cake sit or throw it in the trash. I tell them right up front – No.  But if they insist and leave the cake in front of me, I throw it away. And I don’t feel guilty – No means no in my world.

Surround yourself with a positive support system – it’s a proven fact that if you surround yourself with a positive support system you will have more success in dealing with the situations and people who sabotage your plans. Your support system will assist you in developing strategies and rally around your efforts. Do you have a positive support system?

Control your environment - Usually our environment will dictate what we eat. Make a conscious effort to have a plan in place before stepping into that particular environment. You know what I’m talking about: The office, a party, your in-laws house, a bar-b-q. Write out a plan of action before you go. Share your plan of action with your strongest supporters and then report back to let them know the outcome.

Remember:

Nothing tastes as good as thin feels. And if you fall off the wagon and succumb to your food weaknesses: pick yourself up, dust yourself off, grab a carrot and start over. Do it now, don’t wait until tomorrow.

Diana Young is a Registered Dietitian and Certified Diabetes Educator who uses a science-based approach to weight management and diabetes. Diana has helped thousands of people reach their weight goals.

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Lululemon, Making Friends, and Losing Weight

June 3rd, 2010

I just had a meeting with Susanne Conrad, an executive and ex-board member at Lululemon.  Susanne has been part of a team that has built an incredibly strong brand in a short period of time.  I was hoping to glean some lessons for iChange.

One of her first questions was interesting:  ”What do all of your successful members have in common?”

The answer is that nearly every one of our members that has seen success — whether it is losing weight, lowering blood pressure, or simply feeling better — has built a strong personal connection with someone else on the site.  Those that are trying to manage themselves without help, have been limited in their success.

The fact that people are more likely to lose weight when they are accountable to someone else isn’t surprising. Weight Watchers built a large business off of the same idea.  But the fact that online relationships with people whom you will never meet in person leads to the same type of success (or even higher level of success) is exciting.  It shows that Facebook-type relationships can extend into areas that can help people make important life changes.  Online relationships will become a critical part of how we manage our health and well being in the future.

Susanne had some great suggestions about how to better encourage relationships in the online environment, touching on how she has helped train and connect Lululemon employees around the US and Canada.  Thanks Susanne!

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The History of Weight Loss

April 30th, 2010

I did some research this week on the evolution of weight loss programs.  We often refer to iChange as the “next generation” of program, using internet and mobile technology to be a “virtual support system.”  But to make a claim about next generation, I wanted to understand the older generations that we are building upon.  Here’s what I learned:

The Weight Loss Stone Age (before 1960).  Prior to the founding of Weight Watchers and the emergence of many of the popular diet programs we know today, the concept of dieting and weight loss was at best, unsophisticated, and at worst, absurd.  If you needed to lose weight, you were pretty much on your own, or in extreme cases, you would receive help from the family doctor.  There were a few “fad” diets that started as early in the 1800’s, many of which are laughable today (although many of today’s diets are still laughable).  Some favorites:

  • Alcohol Diet.  References to diets go as far back as 1087, when French Royal William the Conqueror found himself so obese he couldn’t mount a horse.  His solution?  Lock himself in his room with only alcohol to consume.  He was able to remount his horse but reportedly later died of abdominal injuries when he slipped from his saddle.
  • Vinegar Diet.  Popularized by British poet Lord Byron in 1820, the soaking-food-in-vinegar diet helped him lose a reported 60 pounds.
  • Cigarette Diet.  In 1925, Lucky Strikes cigarettes launched a campaign for smokers to “Reach for a Lucky instead of a sweet.”
  • Tapeworm Diet. In the 1950’s there were reports of a pill that contained a tapeworm, with the idea being that you can eat as much as you want as long as you let your personal tapeworm digest your food for you.  One reported dieter, opera singer Maria Callas, lost 65 pounds on the diet.

Support Systems  (Started with Weight Watchers in 1961). In the 1940’s and 1950’s the concept of group counseling and support emerged as a highly effective means of helping individuals with health-related issues.  The Mayo Clinic began using group therapy for patients and Alcoholics Anonymous emerged as a gold standard for addiction recovery.  Weight Watchers adapted the support system model into their group weight loss programs in the 1960’s.  Since then, millions of people have participated in Weight Watchers groups, and it continues to be a $1 billion/year business for the company.

Popular  Diet Books (starting in late 1960’s). The 1960’s saw the emergence of diets that look familiar to us today.  The low-carb dieting fad became popular with the Stillman Diet (published in 1967), and followed up  in 1972 with Dr. Robert Atkins’ book,  Dr. Atkins Diet Revolution. While moderately popular at the time, Dr. Atkins’ book was roundly criticized in the medical community for a lack of scientific evidence.  Of course, many doctors embraced his theories several decades later.  Other popular diets included the Scarsdale Diet (1978) and The Cambridge Diet (1980s).

Self-Managed Web Programs (starting in late 1990’s).  Over the last 10-12 years we’ve seen amazing growth in online programs that make dieting a more convenient exercise.  Many programs offer online meal plans as well as online trackers to record and monitor progress.  Some have migrated to mobile devices giving people the ability to track progress on the run.  Although Weight Watchers was founded on the principal of group interaction, their popular Weight Watchers Online has focused on giving individuals tools to manage themselves.

The Next Generation:  Virtual Support Systems (today). We believe the next big wave in weight loss, and health management in general, will be to use technology to help people connect with practitioners, counselors, and support groups to get the help they need to be successful.  Weight Watchers revolutionized the offline version of group support for weight loss in the 1960’s which continues to be effective to this day.  But having to go to a remote strip mall every Tuesday at 7pm for your weigh-in and group meeting seems out-of-date in an age where technology can help bring the support to you.   Our belief is that as individuals have become more comfortable socializing with others online, it only makes sense that they will quickly evolve to the point that receiving advice and support for health-related issues will become second nature.  We hope that iChange will be a leader in this next phase of evolution.



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Weight Watchers Online Bullies

February 22nd, 2010
Weight Watchers Bully

Welcome to the Community

We had an interesting forum discussion on iChange about Weight Watchers Online bullies.  One person’s comment:

“Not a reflection on WW themselves, but I was in the online community there and there were a group of bullies that seemed to make it their goal to make fun of and point out the weaknesses of others. They would get kicked off but then make a new user profile and be right back on again. I don’t know if that’s still happening but it was a major reason why it didn’t work for me to do the online program with them.

Community is definitely important. Encouraging folks to lean on each other and form support groups is crucial-especially because some of us are in situations where we have saboteurs in our home environments.”

Others chimed in that this is a problem they also have seen on Weight Watchers Online.

iChange  is structured so that our experts and Group Leaders ensure that the online conversations are productive and encouraging.   As we grow, we will continue to refine our systems to keep iChange a safe place to control weight and stay healthy.  Our hope is that we can keep the bullies at bay.

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New Weight Loss Groups are Killing It

January 19th, 2010

We launched our new nutritionist-led weight loss groups at the beginning of the year, and judging from the weight loss, they are doing really well.  Diana Young, RD, is leading our first three groups of ~10 people each, and across the board, participants are losing > 2 pounds per week, and seem to be feeling good while doing it.  Our goal is to help our members lose weight at a healthy rate and to help build habits to keep it off.  The group goal of 100 lbs in 30 days is definitely within reach.

Over the next few months, we will be experimenting with different size groups to see if we can identify an optimal number of people.  The goal is to get enough people in a group to create the buzz and activity to provide motivation, but keep it small enough to build trusted relationships among members.

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