You can’t change diet saboteurs. You can only change how you react to them.
Are you a passive communicator?
Passive communicators have a difficult time letting others know how they feel. They may be uncomfortable speaking out. They avoid all possible conflict. They let others come first. The message they are sending is “I don’t really count”. If you are a passive communicator it is imperative that you develop strategies for dealing with diet saboteurs.
Strategies:
Just say No - when offered food that doesn’t fit into your weight loss plan, simply say “no thanks”. No explanation is needed. You don’t need to feel guilty about not accepting.
Keep a Journal – look for patterns or situations that trigger you to eat unwanted food. Develop strategies for dealing with the person or situation. Keep a list of strategies in your journal or daily planner.
Leave it sit or throw it away – In my own life, I have plenty of saboteurs. “Have a piece of cake, it will make you feel better”. I must be strong enough and confident in my decision to either let the cake sit or throw it in the trash. I tell them right up front – No. But if they insist and leave the cake in front of me, I throw it away. And I don’t feel guilty – No means no in my world.
Surround yourself with a positive support system – it’s a proven fact that if you surround yourself with a positive support system you will have more success in dealing with the situations and people who sabotage your plans. Your support system will assist you in developing strategies and rally around your efforts. Do you have a positive support system?
Control your environment - Usually our environment will dictate what we eat. Make a conscious effort to have a plan in place before stepping into that particular environment. You know what I’m talking about: The office, a party, your in-laws house, a bar-b-q. Write out a plan of action before you go. Share your plan of action with your strongest supporters and then report back to let them know the outcome.
Remember:
Nothing tastes as good as thin feels. And if you fall off the wagon and succumb to your food weaknesses: pick yourself up, dust yourself off, grab a carrot and start over. Do it now, don’t wait until tomorrow.
Diana Young is a Registered Dietitian and Certified Diabetes Educator who uses a science-based approach to weight management and diabetes. Diana has helped thousands of people reach their weight goals.

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